Most men lead their family from a position they have never
actually built.
Pod Coaching is a 14-week group experience for Christian men who are done operating below their potential at home.
Identity. Manhood. Headship, in that order.
Applications reviewed within 48 hours. Spots are limited by design.
14
WEEKS OF COACHING
$4,000
INVESTMENT OR 3x $1,400
Skool
COMMUNITY INCLUDED - LIFETIME ACCESS
Faith-first
BIBLICALLY GROUNDED
WHO THIS IS FOR
This pod is for men who are already capable, and know they are not leading to their ceiling.
You are not broken. You are misaligned. There is a difference, and it matters.
- Married Christian Men, 30-60 You want to lead your wife and family with clarity and conviction, not confusion.
- Professionally capable You can provide. The gap is not income, it is identity and direction.
- You want structure, not sympathy You are not looking for a therapist. You want a framework and men who hold you to it.
- Open to scripture as the foundation This program is explicitly faith-based. Biblical truth is not one option here, it is the framework.
- Done drifting Something in your home feels off - the tone, the direction, the relationship with your wife, and you take full ownership of that.
- Coachable You can receive honest feedback and do something with it. You are not here to be validated.
THE OFFER
Everything inside the pod. Nothing left out.
Twelve weeks of structured coaching designed to move you through three phases: Identity, Manhood, Headship, with men alongside you doing the same work.
01
Weekly Group Coaching Calls.
Live calls with Jesse and Adam every week. You are not watching a recording, you are in the room. Accountability, direction and real-time coaching is in front of you.
02
The Three-Phase Curriculum
Phase one is identity, who you are in Christ, not what you do. Phase two is Manhood, strength, courage, mastery, and honor, grounded in scripture. Phase three is Headship, leaving your home with clarity, not control.
03
Daily Email Coaching
Every day of the 12 weeks you receive a direct email from Jesse and Adam. One idea. One application. One thing to live that day. The transformation does not nearly only happen on call days. It happens every morning.
04
Brotherhood Inside the Pod
A small group of men working through the same framework at the same time. This is not a large community where you disappear. You will know the men in your pod and they will know you.
05
Ascent for Men Skool Community
Lifetime Access
Full access to the Ascent community including midweek calls with Adam, ongoing brotherhood. and every resource we build going forward. Included with your pod enrollment at no additional cost.
INVESTMENT
$4,000
OR 3 PAYMENTS OF $1,400
- 24 live coaching calls, Jesse and Adam present.
- 84 daily emails, one every day of the program.
- Direct Access, to both coaches between sessions.
- Brotherhood of serious men of faith
- All recordings for the duration of the program
- Post-pod community access to Ascent for Men
WHAT CHANGES
Not your wife. Not your Circumstances. You.
The guarantee here is not on your marriage. It is on your identity and your leadership. That is all we can promise, and it is everything.
WHERE MOST MEN START
- Identity built on what you do and what you provide
- Reacting emotionally instead of leading with clarity
- Hoping respect comes without understanding how to earn it
- Feeling the distance in your marriage but unsure what to name it
- Lacking the language for what you know is wrong in your home
- Isolated, no men around you doing this kind of work
WHERE MEN FINISH
- Identity rooted in Christ, stable, not role dependent
- Responding from strength rather than acting from emotion
- Leading clearly so your wife can soften and follow
- Understanding the tone you set and choosing it deliberately
- The language, structure, and tools to lead every dimension of your home
- Brotherhood with men who will hold you to your standards
FROM MEN WHO HAVE BEEN THROUGH IT
The men who do this work change.
Their homes change with them.
If this is the work - apply now. Spots are small by design.
This is not a high-volume program. The pod structure only works when every man in the room is serious. Applications are reviewed individually, and not everyone is accepted.
Apply Now
COMMON QUESTIONS
What you want to know before applying.
How large is a pod?
Do I need to be in a crisis for this to apply to me?
I am not sure my wife supports this. Does that matter?
What is included with the Skool community?
What are the payment options?
Is this specifically Christian? What if my faith is not there yet.
YOUR COACHES
Jesse Carstairs & Adam Tyler Free
Jesse Carstairs builds men from identity outward. His framework: Identity, Manhood, Headship, is grounded entirely in scripture and built on a single conviction: a man will never lead his home well if he has not first become who God made him to be. His coaching is not theory. It is lived truth, refined through two years of high-level work with men across the country.
Adam Free is a retired Green Beret, 7th Special Forces Group, who brings military-forged discipline and rare emotional intelligence to everything he does. A Special Forces operator who can read a room better than almost anyone, Adam builds men who are physically capable, emotionally present, and spiritually grounded at the same time. He hosts the weekly Midweek call inside the Ascent Skool community, a standing touchpoint for the men in the brotherhood between coaching sessions.
Together they run a program that does not separate the spiritual from the practical. Scripture is the foundation. Brotherhood is the structure. Transformation is the expectation.
